Last night I got the call from my sister who was starting to be a new，frash American but keeping the blood which belongs to Chinese flowing in her vessel all long time.What I want to tell her is no matter who or anythings influence herself，just be quiet and containing and make herself to adapt the environment as soon as she could possibly.Acturelly，we always keep ourselves in a suitable place that we thought safe.But，we could not give the right judgment on everythings all the time.So，we should push ourselves to a top of vigilant to aviod the thunderbolts someone makes for us attacking ourselves.It is a instinct.Not bad.